Sunday, September 21, 2008

How to be happy and live your life to the fullest?

Life is definitely not a bed of roses;it is full of ups and downs.we have anger,sorrows,sadness.
If you want to have simple happiness,first of all,you have to accept who you are,what you are and why you are.
Happiness need to be invested,earned ,worked and appreciated.
Here are some tips for you to refer how to become happy.
(1) Change your thinking.
Assume everyday is your last day.If you have witnessed a tragedy or lost a loved one,you will have a different perspective view on LIFE!Live today to the fullest first!
(2) Dont let small stuff bother you.
It is not worth at all if you spend precious time to bother things like "why the boy is so impolite?or the driver wont let you merge into his lane."Smile to him.
(3) Dont try to keep up with others.
If your friend got a new car or your neighbours got a new stereo set,WHO CARES?
(4) Learn how to say"NO"
Give yourself some times to relax,to think and to enjoy peace!
(5) Are you a shoulder for your troubled friend to lean on?
Yes?To certain extent only,pls.If their problems has start to affect your daily routine or mood,stay away .They need to address their own problems and get on with their lives and leave you alone.
(6) Enhance your mood with pets or greenery.
Go to visit plant nursery or pet shop.Fill yourself with vitality and thrills.
(7) Go for hiking and get fresh air.
(8) Invite friends over for simple dinner.Talk about the sweet past and look forward for more friendship.
(9) Smile,smile and smile and the whole world will smile with you.Try it and you will find the difference!
(10) Do some voluntary works.
Friends,best luck!

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

hei,master. I like r web.
Life is wonderful but just depend on how ppl manage it.agree?

Anonymous said...

this passage is nice.
Life is a mixture of sugar,vinegar,bitter guard and chili.
Be brave to face.
Be strong to reflect.
Be steady to act.
Be confident to march forward.

Anonymous said...

today rather dizzy,but come in here,feel fresh and energetic again.haha

Anonymous said...

u all r my friends now.come on,kawan kawan,we r hapi family.

Anonymous said...

Hi Im Xin Zhe! Thanks for the comments your site looks cool too. Anyway I'll try and see if I can write a post in Chinese. Thx again for the comments!~

Anonymous said...

bagus,u lighted up my otak

Anonymous said...

Hai,Xin Zhe,welcome to this small but peaceful pond.You r a shining star,keep it up!
Beauty,this blog is recommended to visit.Do beautify the blog,a young friend.hxz_zone.blogspot.com or u can refer to the shoutmix.Welcome,friends.

Anonymous said...

your small house is cool and wonderful,me want to jemput u to my small house too

Anonymous said...

i will go with warmth in my right hand,care in my left hand and smiles on my face.

Anonymous said...

yah,keep smi....ling

Anonymous said...

I cant go.got polis.nanti ISA catch!

Anonymous said...

I am very busy as now is holidays.But many visitors come and go.so ,wisely write comment.tq!

Anonymous said...

I sing to wait for your return...enjoy u.

Anonymous said...

I prefer to stay here lo,in peaceful乡间

Anonymous said...

life is sweet or bitter all depends on how u handle!